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How does one succeed in life?

08.06.2025 01:26

How does one succeed in life?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What I need from you?

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can someone determine if their partner is in another romantic relationship, particularly if they do not live together?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

Ask yourself:

Do not set goals—set systems.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Making more friends is a goal.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

That's it for today.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Does not procrastinate.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Living to your full potential is a goal.